These days, online ads promising astronomical compensation and benefits for potential GCs are running amok online, and we have fielded many recent questions as to if this is a reliable way to A) find a GC and B) sign up to be a GC. Here are several reasons why online recruitment for surrogates can be problematic, particularly when not done carefully or ethically:
- Lack of Screening and Oversight
Many online platforms allow anyone to post or respond to surrogate recruitment ads, often without any medical, psychological, or legal screening. This opens the door to unqualified or vulnerable individuals being recruited without proper safeguards in place.
- Exploitation Risks
Online recruitment can make it easier for unethical actors to exploit women, especially those facing financial hardship. Without the protections of a reputable agency or legal counsel, potential surrogates may be offered unfair compensation or misled about the risks and responsibilities involved.
- Misleading or Incomplete Information
Web ads and social media posts often simplify or glamorize surrogacy, leaving out crucial information about medical procedures, legal contracts, emotional demands, and potential complications. This can lead to unrealistic expectations and emotional distress later in the process.
- Bypassing Legal and Ethical Standards
Recruiting online can sometimes lead to arrangements made outside of established legal or ethical frameworks. This includes skipping psychological evaluations, legal contracts, or matching processes designed to protect both intended parents and surrogates.Â
- Privacy and Confidentiality Issues
Online communication lacks the confidentiality safeguards that established agencies provide. Sensitive personal and medical information might be shared over insecure platforms, creating risks for identity theft or breaches of privacy.
- Lack of Ongoing Support
Online matches often don’t include access to case managers, mental health professionals, or legal advocates who guide and support surrogates throughout the journey. This can leave surrogates feeling isolated or unsupported, especially in complex or high-stress situations.
Overall, it is best to do your research when seeking out resources that either recruit or match GCs online. Though there can be legitimate ways to do this, the field is replete with bad actors and scammers who can turn your dream into a nightmare.
And remember the old adage: “If it looks too good to be true, it probably is.”